How to manifest a specific person into your life

7 Tips For Manifesting A Specific Person Into Your Life

Want to manifest a specific person into your life?

Not just anybody…

But the one person who’s been running through your mind like crazy, possibly for a while now…

Well, you’re in luck!

Today I’m going to show you how to magnetically attract a specific person into your life…

It doesn’t matter if it’s the guy (or girl) who recently moved in next door…

A long term crush that you’ve known for years…

An ex…

Or even, a celebrity!

It’s 100% possible to manifest a relationship with your specific person.

Now, before I jump in I just wanted to quickly address something…

The concept of free will!

Because I’ve noticed there are a few naysayers online who discourage attracting a specific person due to the fact that you could be “messing with free-will.”

So here’s the truth of the matter…

Yes, everybody has free-will

We are all manifesting our own realities and therefore, if your specific person’s desire is not in alignment with yours, there could be some conflict of interest…


You can influence free-will.

Not manipulate, but influence…

And no, it’s not morally wrong and it’s certainly not some kind of “witchcraft”.

In fact, the truth is that every time we manifest we influence free-will in some way or another.

This means is that everybody is affecting everybody… at least on a subtle energetic level.

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What do I mean by that?

Well, say you go to an interview for a job that you have been manifesting…

You know that there are other candidates applying for the job who may be more qualified…

But you choose to remain positive and have faith that the hiring manager will pick you.

Through the Law of Attraction, the hiring manager picks up on this subtle energy and feels drawn to hire you for the position regardless of the other candidates…

His free-will has been influenced on a subtle level…

Now, the hiring manager is still 100% free to make his own choices because his free-will can not be taken from him in any way.

He is still completely within his own personal power…

But chances are that he will choose to you due to the way that your energy has influenced his own.

We have this kind of constant energetic feedback between people which becomes a huge factor in helping us to discern the intentions of others.

Think about some other common manifestations and the people who could be involved.

Almost everything you could manifest will require some kind of energetic influence on others.

You can not manipulate free-will.

It’s impossible.

However, you can use your own energy to influence the way that you are received by others.

And that is exactly what you are going to do to manifest a relationship with your specific person.

7 Tips For Manifesting A Specific Person Into Your Life

Now that the whole free-will debate is out of the way, let’s get right to the juice!

I have successfully manifested a relationship with my specific person in the past.

That person was an ex and I’m happy to report that we are still together and very much in love today (here’s the full story about that).

During that process, I did find a handful of things to be particularly helpful in terms of my own manifestation.

With that being said, here are my top 7 tips!

1.) Focus On You First

Focus on yourself first

Through my blog, a reader recently reached out and told me that she was struggling to manifest her specific person…

I asked her to tell me about her life in an attempt to get to the heart of the issue.

As it was, she was living with her ex-husband and her specific person was interested in her, but he too was married and living with his wife.

The issue became clear to me right away…

She was blocking the relationship from blossoming due to the fact that she just didn’t have the space for it yet…

Not just physical space but mental and emotional too.

Due to her circumstances, she wasn’t ready to open those gates and let the kind of love she wanted, flow into her life.

Neither was her specific person.

This is a great example of why it’s so important to focus on yourself and what’s going on in your own life first in order to manifest any kind of relationship.

It’s about being realistic with yourself…

Because if you want the relationship to work, then you need to plant your seeds in an environment where they can grow.

Take a look at your life as it is right now…

If your specific person was to walk into your life today, are you in the position to nurture the relationship?

Do you have space to commit to your shared growth on a physical, emotional, mental and spiritual level…

And if not, what steps can you take to ensure that you are stable and secure enough to welcome the flow of this specific person into your reality?

Remember, a relationship will not complete you. 

So it’s up to you to ensure completion within your own world before inviting another human in to share space with you.

2.) Visualize

There are tonnes of great manifestation techniques out there…

But one of the most powerful techniques you can use (especially for matters of the heart) is visualization.

Take time to imagine yourself and your specific person playing out scenes where you are together.

Picture being asked out on a date by your future lover…

Imagine them calling you on the phone, holding your hand or sleeping beside you.

If you can hold onto a thought (even for just a few seconds) the thought will begin to build momentum toward manifesting into your reality.

To boost your visualization practice even further, try injecting some emotion.

How does it feel to be loved by this person?

Try to awaken the emotion within.

This is really going to create a magnetic pull between you and your specific person.

The reason being that emotion offers an instant vibration shift.

Your feelings radiate out into the universe and communicate a message of love.

In the Law of Attraction, ‘like attracts like’ so when you are feeling loved by your specific person (even if it’s just in your imagination), you must attract more of that.

And this is essentially how manifestation works.

3.) Take It Slow

In the beginning, when manifesting a relationship with a specific person it can be tempting to want to attract the whole shabang right away.

But never underestimate the power of taking it slow.

Getting to know each other on a deeper level is half the fun.

And in years to come, when you look back on your relationship you will do so with great memories of how it all began…

Manifest your specific person one step at a time and allow yourself to really enjoy the process…

It might be that you focus first on meeting up unexpectedly and spending time together as friends…

From there you might manifest exchanging phone numbers…

And then a first date…

By taking it slow, both of you will be able to develop feelings naturally.

This is important because your emotions are vibrational frequency.

They radiate out into the universe in order to attract even more of the same.

So when you both feel good about each other, you will continue to manifest more positive feelings toward one another.

In terms of influencing free will, by taking it slow and allowing your specific person to develop feelings slowly and naturally, you can ensure that what they want begins to align with what you want.

In other words, you are not just manifesting them, they begin to manifest you too (whether they know it or not).

4.) Take Your Specific Person Off The Pedestal

When manifesting a relationship with anyone it’s important to be real with yourself.

Your specific person is only human…

There is no need to idolize them and in fact, when you do, you cause huge amounts of resistance.

When you place another person on a pedestal you basically say that you are beneath them…

That you are not worthy of their time and attention.

And this just isn’t true.

Know your own worth above everything else.

Because you are fricken’ amazing!

Your specific person would be blessed to have you by their side.

Be confident in what you bring to the table and see your future partner as equal to you not superior.

Where you can find a sense of equality, you will also find alignment.

5.) Don’t Chase

Chasing is often a symptom of putting your specific person on a pedestal, however…

Because chasing is so common and a huge barrier to manifesting in general, I felt it deserved its own special mention…

If you only follow one of the points I’ve listed today, please let it be this one…

Do not chase!

If you are someone who texts or calls your specific person a lot…

Or even if you’re finding yourself going out of your way to see more of them, then I have to say, you’re doing this whole manifesting thing wrong.

You need to trust in the universe.

To have faith in your own creative power.

Think about it…

If you were being chased what would you do?

You would run right?!

And that’s exactly what vibe your specific person picks up on when you chase them.

They feel that they should run…

Chasing comes from an underlying feeling of desperation…

And when you emit desperation…

You attract more desperation into your life.

Now I’m not saying that you shouldn’t take inspired action…

If you feel guided toward making contact with your specific person then by all means, follow your intuition.

But do it from a place of confidence and excitement…

Not desperation or lack.

Above all, remember that the universe is always working in your favor and therefore you really don’t need to go out of your way.

Your specific person will come to you.

6.) Be Yourself

This is another important one.

When manifesting a relationship of any kind, it’s so important that you remain authentic to who you are.

Too many times I’ve seen people trying to change themselves in order to impress someone else…

And it never works.

But when you are 100% standing in your own authentic power, your energetic frequency will always be at its peak.

Because presenting yourself as someone who follows their own light, speaks their own truths and enjoys their own passions is highly attractive!

Even if you’re quite different from your specific person, represent your own truth with pride.

Being different will allow you both to gain so much perspective and expansion from one another.

And the glow you receive from being in alignment with your own inner being will not be ignored.

Your specific person will find you intriguing and they will want to be a part of your world.

Your own authenticity is what makes you so amazing!

Cherish that and just embrace being you!

7.) Let Go

Letting go is the final step to any manifestation and it’s a powerful one!

Now, when I say “let go” I don’t mean “give up” on your manifestation.

Let go of control…

Let go of ‘how’ and ‘when’ your specific person will manifest into your life.

Simply have faith in the universe and stop obsessing over the outcome.

You’re attracting your specific person every single moment that you’re in alignment with that desire and not resisting the flow by doubting the process.

If you need help with letting go, try keeping busy…

Stay focused on your passions and hobbies, work on yourself, spend time with friends.

And above all…

Enjoy the single life while you still can!

Charlotte Rogers
Charlotte Rogers

Charlie is a spiritual manifestation coach/teacher that has helped thousands of people around the world manifest their goals and desires. She’s been featured on Elephant Journal, Addicted 2 Success & More!

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