There is no feeling quite like pining after a crush.
We have all been there…
The love story that exists only in our heads; that intense, heart racing infatuation.
Often we become so fixated on this one person that we can’t even imagine a relationship with anyone else.
manifesting love is relatively easy. It’s an open process where you trust in the universe to bring forth your perfect match.
Manifesting your crush (or any specific person for that matter), is something entirely different.
So How Does Someone Manifest Their Crush?
First of all, we need to remember that every single person on this earth is entitled to free will.
In other words, your own manifestation power can never override that of another person’s, regardless of whether their manifestations are made consciously or subconsciously.
This does not mean that you are dead out of luck with manifesting your crush.
It just means that you will need to do some groundwork in order to influence their free will.
With that in mind, this article has been broken down into three fundamentals of the Law of Attraction and how to use them to manifest your crush.
Daydreaming about your crush is probably something you are already doing so this step shouldn’t be too hard to incorporate into your daily life.
”Imagination is more important than knowledge. For knowledge is limited, whereas imagination embraces the entire world, stimulating progress, giving birth to evolution.” – Albert Einstein
Using your imagination to manifest your crush is a great way to get the ball rolling in your Law of Attraction routine.
Begin by visualizing scenarios with you and your crush as the main characters.
Imagine asking your crush out on a date.
Picture going to dinner with your crush, perhaps they are laughing at all of your jokes.
Create scenarios within your mind where you are essentially living out your dreams with your crush by your side.
You can incorporate a visualization ritual into your life in a variety of different ways.
One method is to simply find a quiet space where you can zone out and daydream.
Completely immerse yourself within your imagination.
This method is similar to meditation but instead of clearing your mind, you are simply allowing yourself to become one with your inner fantasies.
Another way to use thoughts to manifest your crush is to practice affirmations…
Reciting a list of “I am” statements, doesn’t usually require a lot of thought power.
That’s Okay. The true magic behind positive affirmations is in the way they influence the subconscious mind.
Your subconscious mind stops developing at 7 years old, therefore, when you train it to accept a new thought process as truth you must do so by repeating yourself over and over again.
Think about how you would teach a new concept to a 7-year-old child.
Training the subconscious mind is no different.
After a while, the positive affirmations that you use become so ingrained in your mind that the subconscious begins to accept them as fact.
You begin to emit a frequency that vibrates as if you are already living out your desires and that change in frequency is what attracts your dreams into your reality.
Example Affirmations For Manifesting Your Crush:
• My crush views me as everything they could ever want in a partner.• My crush values all of my strengths.• I radiate attraction in every sense of the word whenever my crush is around.• I am constantly attracting my crush.• My crush feels safe, secure and comfortable around me.
Side Note – These affirmations are much more powerful when you change the words “my crush” to the specific person’s name.
Learn more about affirmations here: 5 Magical Positive Affirmation Tips To Rewire Your Brain For Success
In the process of attracting your crush, emotion is a fundamental that should come relatively easy.
As you know, having a crush on someone can come with some pretty strong emotions.
Your challenge here is to try and keep these emotions as positive as you can.
Try not to fall into the trap of feeling sad that you are not in a relationship with your crush.
Letting negative emotions like desperation and pain impose on your life, especially when thinking about your crush could be detrimental to the manifestation process.
That being said…
It’s important to note that we all experience negative thoughts and emotions from time to time and it is OK to have those feelings.
The key is simply not to feed them.
Letting negative emotions pass without judgment is the best way to deal with them.
If you start beating yourself up for having negative thoughts then you are essentially feeding negativity with more negativity.
Whenever you catch yourself feeling low or doubtful, simply notice those emotions, take a deep breath and let them go.
Try to focus on positive emotions like joy, love, and excitement.
These emotions come from a place of “knowing” and “being”.
Think of it this way…
If you had already manifested your crush how would you feel?
When you focus on feeling positive before you attract your crush, your feelings will be an exact energetic match with your desired outcome.
This is essentially the secret recipe for a manifestation of any kind.
Negative emotions attract negative experiences and likewise positive emotions attract positive experiences.
Like attracts like!
One great way to manifest your crush is to incorporate positive emotion into your visualizations.
When creating a mental image of a scene between you and your crush, focus on how it feels.
Invoke those feeling of love and happiness within your body.
Your energetic frequency will always reflect the way you feel inside.
When manifesting your crush, the action step is vital for influencing his or her free will.
The goal is to take action that creates a positive picture of who you are in the subconscious mind of your crush.
Start With A Smile.
The simple act of smiling at another person creates a positive vibration that bounces between the two of you.
A smile shows happiness and whether we like it or not, everyone is attracted to happiness.
Some other examples of action are as follows:
- Say “Hi”
- Strike up conversation
- Offer to help him/her with something
- Laugh as his/her jokes
- Make subtle compliments
Slowly increase the positive action you make towards your crush but be careful not to smother them.
Remember, the Law of Attraction should not require hard work.
Making a few simple gestures here and there should be enough to start influencing free will but under no circumstance do you want to be pushy.
Your crush may back away if they feel like their right to choose is being compromised.
Wait For A Universal Thumbs Up
Once you have spent some time on your manifestation routine, you will begin to feel your energy rising.
You may suddenly become more aware and receptive to the signs that you are aligning with your desire to manifest your crush.
Perhaps you start to see your lucky number everywhere or maybe you experience increased intuition.
Whether it is a meaningful song on the radio, a trigger phrase, or some kind of dream, once you become aligned you will be very aware of it.
When you start to notice these universal synchronicities, it is a good indication that the time is right for you to ask your crush out on a date (that is if they haven’t already asked you first).
Trust in your manifestation power and take a leap of faith.