How to manifest your soulmate

How To Manifest Your Soulmate | The 5 Most Important Steps

Want to know how to manifest your soulmate?

You’re not alone!

Trying to find someone that really clicks with you on a deeper and more meaningful level can be one of the most frustrating things that you may ever experience.


How often do we waste our time, money and energy on dates that never really seem to go anywhere?

What’s even worse is ending up in a relationship with someone that you think is “the one” only to be disappointed later down the track.

But what if there was a way to attract your perfect match without having to go through the disappointments of dating?

What if instead of finding “the one” we could draw “the one” to us?

Today we break down the 5 ways to manifest your soulmate, but before we do lets first cover the basics…

What Is A Soulmate?


It is said that when we incarnate into this lifetime, we bring along other members of our soul family.

Other souls that have accompanied us many times before in previous lifetimes and beyond.

Soulmates can come in the form of friends, family or loved ones even though the term “soulmate” is often reserved for romantic partners only.

The truth is that we often have many different soulmates but for the purpose of this article, we are going to focus on love soulmates only.

“People think a soulmate is your perfect fit, and that’s what everyone wants. But a true soulmate is a mirror, the person who shows you everything that is holding you back, the person who brings you to your own attention so you can change your life. A true soul mate is probably the most important person you’ll ever meet because they tear down your walls and smack you awake. A soulmates purpose is to shake you up, tear apart your ego a little bit, show you your obstacles and addictions, break your heart open so new light can get in, Make you so out of control that you have to transform your life.” – Elizabeth Gilbert

Have you ever lay awake at night and asked, “Where is my soulmate right now?” and wondered if perhaps they might be doing the exact same thing?

Never fear, the answer is here!

Below I have compiled the 5 most important steps to manifest your soulmate using the Law of Attraction!

1.) Ask yourself “What Are My Intentions?”

When it comes to attracting your soulmate, the first thing you must ask yourself is, “Why do I want this?”

Really dive deep and discover why having a soul mate is so important to you.

Feeling lonely and insecure is not a good reason to want to manifest love.

Love should never come from a place of selfishness but rather a place of wanting to share and give.

The first mistake people make when manifesting love is that they look for someone to fulfill their own personal needs.

This will NEVER work.


Why wont this work?

Because the main principle of the Law of Attraction is like attracts like!So if you are trying to fill a void, guess what you are going to attract?

Yep, that’s right!

Somebody who is also looking to fill a void.

Do you want a relationship where you can offer someone love and affection?

Do you want to share your life with someone and in turn have them share their life with you?

If so, awesome! You are in the perfect position to start manifesting the love of your life.

2.) Love Yourself!

“Your task is not to seek for love, but merely to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it” – Rumi

Learn to love yourself

We have all heard the old cliche “You can’t love someone else until you learn to love yourself”.

The reason why it is so important to love yourself is not so readily explained in an easy to remember quotation.

Loving yourself is about being thankful for your journey and knowing that all experiences both good and bad have led you to this point.

It’s about accepting your strengths as well and your weaknesses in order to continue to grow in this lifetime.

Self-love is important in a relationship because it allows you to accept inner issues without them affecting or burdening your relationship in a negative way.

This is one of the key reasons that higher energies might repel soulmates from one another.

Soulmates only enter each other’s lives romantically when the timing is perfect.

If you are yet to manifest your soulmate, take some time to reflect inward. How can you resolve past issues in order to be loving and accepting of who you are as a person?

Here are just a few ways that you can promote inner healing and self-love in your life:

  • Make the most of the time you spend alone
  • Let go of the past
  • Focus on being more present
  • Support your body’s health and nutrition
  • Take time to relax
  • Invest in personal development as well as self-care
  • Notice and work on any escapism habits (over checking social media, judging others, not taking action with your life etc)

Above all, the best way you can develop self-acceptance is to develop a meditation routine.

Meditation will allow you to detach from the pain and fear-based ego in order to become one with your higher self.

Further Reading:

Manifestation and Meditation – How A Quiet Mind Attracts An Abundant Life

3.) Review Your Give And Take

Using your manifestation journal, write down a statement that affirms you are manifesting your soulmate with gratitude.

Something like:

“I am thankful to be attracting my one true love using the Law of Attraction and the powers of the universe”.

Beneath this statement, make a list of between 5 and 10 qualities that your perfect soulmate has. These qualities will be your affirmations.

For example:

  • My soulmate is kind.
  • My soulmate is intelligent.
  • My soulmate will be a great mother/father.
  • I’m attracted to a loving and forever partner.
  • I draw love and romance into my life.
  • My soulmate is my other half.
  • I give love and light and receive it back.

Try not to focus these qualities on how your soulmate should look because that could create an energetic barrier between you and your true soulmate.

It will also generate a superficial charge within your manifestation which could potentially draw someone equally as superficial and vain toward you.

Instead of listing physical traits, try saying something like “My soulmate is beautiful” or “There is an intense, mutual attraction between my soulmate and I”.

Remember, love is a two-way street!

Once you have listed the qualities of your future soulmate, turn your attention in toward the things that make you special.

What attributes might you bring to the relationship? What traits make you a perfect match for your soulmate?

List things such as:

  • I am a great cook
  • I am a hard worker
  • I am emotionally supportive

Once you have listed both your own qualities and those of your future soulmates, you can begin incorporating these into your daily affirmation routine.

You might like to schedule a morning and evening time slot where you sit quietly and repeat these affirmations or perhaps practice them during the quieter moments in your day e.g. while driving to work or taking a walk around the block.

Further Reading:

5 Magical Positive Affirmation Tips To Rewire Your Brain For Success

How To Make Your Affirmations Work Faster

How Do Subliminal Affirmations Work

4.) Visualize

Visualizing a reality where your desires have already manifested is a powerful technique used by Law of Attraction enthusiasts all over the world.

For manifesting your soulmate however, your visualizations should be especially feelings based.

Love is a feeling and if you want it you must feel it. Emit the vibration that you are trying to attract.

There are many ways in which you can visualize but a good place to start is with meditation.

Write down 5 scenarios that could take place between yourself and your future soulmate.

Choose one scenario to meditate on at a time and alternate the scenarios between meditation sessions.

Find a comfortable spot to sit where you will not be disturbed.

Breathe deeply and repeat silently in your mind “breathe in….breathe out”.

This will help to take your focus away from any thought chatter that may pop into your consciousness.

Feel your stomach gently expand with each inhale and contract with each exhale.

If any random thoughts pop into your mind during this time, thank them for coming and then release them as you turn your attention back to your breathing.

Once you are relaxed, you may start playing the chosen scene in your mind.

After you have spent a few minutes watching this scene play out, use your imagination to step into the scenario and inside the character that is being projected as you.

Continue the visualization for as long as you like but take time to ask yourself “how does this feel?”

Remember, you need to emit the feeling of love to attract the feeling of love.

Don’t forget to focus on physical sensations as well as emotional to really experience the visualization.

Further Reading:

6 Easy Visualization Techniques For Epic Manifestation

5.) Stop Looking And Let The Universe Do Its Job

One of the biggest mistakes people make when trying to manifest their soulmate is that they ask for love but then sabotage their own chances by not being open to the magic of the universe.

Now, that’s not to say if you sit on the couch for two weeks, the love of your life will magically show up at your doorstep but it is important to give the universe space to work.

Go about your daily life, make time for self-love and development and allow yourself to be a magnet for your perfect match.

If you’re finding temporary love in nightclubs or serial dating people who are undeserving of your time then you are essentially overcrowding the space reserved for your soulmate.

Don’t let yourself be distracted by pebbles only to miss the diamond that the universe is offering you.

Let the universe work

“Your soulmate is not someone who comes into your life peacefully. It is who comes to make you question things, who changes your reality, somebody that marks a before and after in your life. It is not the human being everyone has idealized, but an ordinary person who manages to revolutionize your world in a second.” – Anonymous

So How Do You Know When You Have Manifested Your True Soulmate?

Once you have spent some time applying these steps you may happen to “stumble” across someone who completely fits the bill.

How do you know when you have manifested your true soulmate?

If you are unsure, look for the following signs…

Signs You Have Manifested Your Soulmate

  • You feel like you have known each other forever.
  • Conversation flows naturally.
  • You share similar views and sense of humor.
  • You seem to read each other’s minds.
  • There is a strong, mutual attraction.
  • You experience Deja Vu when you are around them.
  • They feature heavily in your dreams.
  • You naturally feel safe and comfortable around each other.
  • You have had similar life experiences.
  • There is a feeling of relief to finally have this person in your life.
  • You finish each other’s sentences.

Love is a journey and your soul mate appears not only to love and support you but also to challenge you to become the best version of yourself.

Hold on tight and enjoy the ride for discovering your soulmate will take you to the greatest heights and push your limits like never before.

Ultimately, your soulmate will bring intense spiritual growth.

Happy manifesting and best of luck!!

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Charlotte Rogers
Charlotte Rogers

Charlie is a spiritual manifestation coach/teacher that has helped thousands of people around the world manifest their goals and desires. She’s been featured on Elephant Journal, Addicted 2 Success & More!

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